Put On Your Rose-Colored Glasses

By Alece Demaray RYT 

I consider myself an optimist and a person who is capable of staying grounded through the whirlwind of life.  This is generally speaking, because being positive is a practice and life is always willing to test you.

When I started to see a specialist on my fertility journey, I became quickly overwhelmed at the amount of appointments I had to fit into my already full schedule.  Thankfully most of the appointments could be completed early in the morning prior to work, but the early wake ups, finding parking and long days started to wear on me.  In addition, I was feeling stressed at trying to plan ahead of what cycle days I would have to go in, so I could plot my schedule/travel around my new commitment. I became agitated and overwhelmed.  NOT what you want when trying to conceive.  

Once I got in the routine of the appointments and how they fit in my life, I started to appreciate them more.  For one, I am so lucky to live in a place where this top-notch care and specialty exists. I also began to feel very grounded around my early morning appointments because of what I was doing after them.  After each appointment I would carve out some time go to get some breakfast prior to moving into the rest of the day. While nourishing, I would reflect on the good, what I was grateful for… the level of care I was able to access, my supportive partner, my flexible work schedule, the warm food in front of me.  I would write around 5 things and often that act of writing 5 things stimulated more words to flow. I found that my ritual would leave me feeling calmer and connected to myself. It prepared me to take on the day ahead with a renewed sense of vigor.  

It can be difficult to find the good when you are feeling down, but I assure you- it is always there.  There is always something to express gratitude for, even if only the shoes on your feet or a snuggle with your pup.  Finding gratitude has a myriad of benefits including improved sleep and fostering a greater sense of contentment. A study carried out by Emmons & McCullough in 2003, also confirmed that people who practiced gratitude daily exercised more regularly, reported fewer physical aches and pains, felt more connected to others and were more optimistic, thus improving their ability to make progress towards their goals. 

Gratitude has a way of slowing you down and filtering your view of life, allowing you to see the rosy hues.  They are there, BUT it takes some reprogramming of the brain to recognize them BEFORE you see the dark tones.  Believe it or not, we are programmed to find the threat in things first. This stems from way back, when humans were being chased by lions and tiger and bears (oh my) and had to defend themselves to survive!  Thankfully we do not need to operate that way, but our mind is still programmed to scan our environment for what is wrong, what is threatening us. As a result, we can see “threats” in people that we don’t like, jobs that over-stress us and get caught up in drama, losing sight of the bigger picture.  

There is good news.  We can take conscious action to retrain the way our mind works.  We can flip our attention to see the good. To notice the sun before the feeling the humidity, to savor the doughnut before counting the calories, to admire your accomplishments before obsessing over what is left to do.  

So how can you make the shift?  It is easier than you think, but it takes a daily commitment that you are more than capable of doing.  Get a notebook and spend 5 minutes every day to jot down 3-5 things that you are grateful for. That is it! Commit to your gratitude journal for 30 days and then check in.  Do you enjoy it? Have you noticed any shifts in your mood, relationships and life?  Good things, abundance and high vibes attract more good things, more abundance and higher vibes.  It’s time to put on your rose-colored glasses, so you can see and experience the beauty around you, your life.  So, start now. What are you grateful for today?

If this conversation lights you or if this conversation agitates you, let’s talk about it!  I will be at Pulling Down the Moon for two FREE events this summer and will kick off a Yoga For Fertility series in August.  Dates are included below. I hope to meet you soon… and in the meantime, stay grateful, bask in the sun and taste the sweetness of the season.  Soak up the goodness that life serves daily.

All at Pulling Down the Moon in our Chicago Location.  Check out Yoga for Fertility and our Calendar of Events on our website for more details!

  • Go Prana Go:  8/24 @ 10am, FREE –> Space is limited. Register here to save your spot!
  • Yoga For Fertility SeriesJoin the current series on Sundays at 11:30am with rolling enrollment through September 22nd and then the next series starts on Tuesday, September 24th at 7pm –> Register via MBO here.

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